First day - Vacation at Home: A new proposal came

I have been at my home for the diwali celebration. Mom asked me about Nisha. I wished i could tell her about my liking for her but it was not the right time to convey my feelings to mom about Nisha. I tell her that i will discussed about her later. 

It was the dhanteras, the festival which i consider of purchasing the new utensils and jewellary. It was the clear morning sky. Sun was smiling with the welcome of my stay at home. The room was knocked .. i get up from my lovable dream world and saw my Mom standing with a lime water in her hand. It is always pleasant to see the mom's face at the start of the day. 

She asked me to get ready because i had to go with her shopping of dhanteras. I got ready within 45 minutes. It was about quarter to 11.Though my mom was also dressed up in her new saree but she was still cleaning the drawing room and making the already our well-cleaned drawing room more cleaned (which i tell you not required). 

I asked mom whether we are going for shopping. She said, "Manoj ji and Seema ji are coming here. They will be here within 10 minutes. Once we met them we will go.?"

I was perplexed to know that some unknown visitors' were coming at this time. I dont want these unknown visitors at this festivity time. I enquired Mom, "Do i know them.??

She said, "I was going to tell you. But i couldn't get the time. They have been looking for you and were trying to meet you for past 2 months. Yesterday, late in the night they have called me to know that whether you have come in diwali vacation??. So they are coming to see you..."

Mom further informed that they have a daughter of 22 years old. She has done the Bachelors of Art from Delhi University. Mr Manoj is the working as Vice President in a renowned company and his wife Mrs. Seema is a housewife. They were looking for the marriage alliance for their daughter, Neeta.

I was not in the mood to see these people. Further, it seemed to me so awkward to entertain them as their probable groom with such a short notice. However, who cares, since they were about to come and they were our guest, we had to entertain them. 

The door bell rang, "Tring Tring...". Our unknown guest were at our home.. and the drama would began now..

Virtual Date: What an Idea

I proposed an idea to get out of this family mess (hehe). I told Nisha, "Nisha, I have an idea, which will give us more time". Nisha laughed, "Raj!! wow you have an idea...but it is not about experimenting the idea..it is more about to get more time to know each other".

I said, "See, you and myself both are having the CAT exam. We both will tell to our families that the after the result we will decide about marriage..(heheh...parents never say "No" for studies)"

She shouted lightly,"Rajjjjjjjj...you know na, we both have not filled the CAT exam and you are saying about it result...are you madddd?? I will not going to tell lie to my Papa".

I can see her eyebrows getting raised and the three lines getting appeared on her forehead. (These girls never tell lie to their family..such a baby girl..heheh).

I explained,"Nisha, in GEETA it is written that to save someone's life, a lie spoken never remains lie. It is a good deed (heheh), in fact here we will save our life before taking the right decision for our partner"

Nisha seemed to be little convinced and i could see her eyebrows getting normal from being raised (hehe)..

She said, "Hmm, you are smart enough..in fundey baji..haahah..O.K. we will say the same that we are having the exam and we will decide about each other liking's after the result ..because after CAT exam we have to prepare for our GDs and interviews..haahah..you are such a liar Raj.. i will be speaking lie only for you man"

We both continued our lovable virtual date for an hour more. We both were going for Diwali celeberation to our home.

I wish you all, "Happy Diwali"

Let us see what happen at our home...

VIRTUAL DATE: SHE LIKE ME..

Nisha and I remained quite for a moment.. I can still see the worries in her eyes. I was worried but i don't want to make the things more tense on our "First Virtual Date". In fact, i want it (our dating) to be more fruitful and more lovable.

I take the lead and break down the moment silence aroused (the answers to be responded by us to our families about our liking's). I said, "Nisha.. let us make the things clearer.. i know it is early rather awkward to ask that what you think about me (I spoke heavily with heavy breath)".

She raised her eyebrows and said,"Raajjjj..you know na..it is too early to say anything. And how straight you have asked this question from me, Man!"

I know that it is too early to decide about both us..I said, "We have to give answers to our parents.. I have an idea for that but before that i want to know your views about me"

Nisha said politically ,"Koi nahi Raj!! I will handle my Papa..you just take care of aunty's (my mom) questions"
(I know girls generally do not give the answers of these type questions straight.. infact whether to know they liked you or not is more typical than cracking the IITJEE.

I became little impatient but i have the experience to get the answer from smart girls (heheh). I said, "It implies that you do not like me.. but you don't want to tell me ..bcoz i may not feel bad (i really don' want to hear this from her..hehe).. but i believe in making things more pragmatic and real. I want to make it clear that i like you very much (the very unromantic way of saying such a wonderful girl)...but to make things more better and to understand you better, i want to know your views clear (hehe)"

She was hearing me patiently and then she shift her sitting position on the bed. She put teddy behind and said,"Raj, how unromantic you are !! Is this way you are proposing me or what (she was smiling and little bit angry with me..but main aisa hi hooonn). "

I smiled and said softly,"Nisha i am just telling you..before saying "Yes" to my  family, if things worked i will propose you..i will propose you their in Mumbai only before saying "Yes" to my mom and before our official family meeting (to see you and your family on traditional tea ritual)"

She was smiling and laughing slowly, "Acha teek hain..you want to know hw do i like you.. i think you are O.K"

The lines on my forehead became dense,"O.K.  what O.K. (i never expect that she will said me simply O.K ):) "

She laughed loudly and said,"Acha teek hain.. i think i  like you...now tell me what we should tell to our families"

Now the ball is in my court..It is my turn to tell her the idea ...

Virtual date continued - How to delay "ENGAGED"

Nisha accept my video call. She appeared on my laptop screen. Nisha was in her favourite green colour suit (she was in her formals.. i dont know why so much formality, but girls are more decent than guys).

Nisha said,"hey..hiiiiiiii..kaisey hoin??". i am sitting in front of my laptop, i waved my hand and replied,"i am fine Nisha..tum kaisi hoin??"

She was smiling. Her hairs were below her shoulders. She was wearing a punjabi suit having the "Kadai work (Indian name of stitching)" on the suit. Her forehead was as smooth as sleeping ocean. Her eyebrows were as sharp as sloping mountain ranges. The eyes were as full as mountain river. Her nose slope down perfectly as the ice melting and flowing down the hill. The lips were perfectly curved as the sleek moon smiling in the clear sky before "Amavsya". Her lips were as full as fresh rose. Her cheek was as pointed as meeting point of two rivers.
At this point my heart says,
"She looks perfect and fine but my heart is afraid whether she would be mine".

She smile and said,"I am also fine raj..aur tum batao tumhara kaisa chal raha sab". I was adhoring her and my heart was falling  for her (after all such a pretty girl is with you on your virtual date), i was lost and was looking at her (in fact staring, heheh). She waived her hand in the air and said, "hey helllooooo...kya hua.. you there".

I get awoken from her world of beauty and replied, "arrey haan.. yes i am there..i am looking at your room ..(i lied, dont want to say that i lost myself in her beauty)..u manage your room gud".

Behind her room i can see one more single bed (she shares her room with her room partner i.e. Megha, both Nisha and Megha are maha darpok, they afraid to sleep alone), lying parallel to Nisha's bed, on which she was sitting, with a table lamp standing on the side table between the two beds. The light of her room was pretty dim. Her room walls appeared to be of pink colour. Also a teddy bear (big one )was sitting along with her.

Nisha's raised her eyes and said laughingly, "Itni jaldi, how can you see my room.. i know you are doing butter polish..anywys thanks..waisey i am  not able to see your room. But the song i can hear in your background is gud (Badey achey lagtey hoin...was playing in my room)."

Then she become little mature and said, "How is everyone at your home? Are you going home on diwali??

I said, "Hmmm...pata nahi !! shayad yes?? are you not going home on diwali??'

She said with a pause, "Haan, but i dont want to go..you know all that marriage stuff"

Nisha also want to get settled down, but she also want to know her life partner. She do believe in arrange marriage but she wants to know the guy better before marriage. It is obvious that during diwali, parents of both of us want to know about our liking to each other (but liking and getting married are different issues.)

Nisha said confusedly, "You know Raj, papa will ask the same question about marriage"

I said,"Nisha, my mom will ask the same thing."

Nisha said, hesitantly, "Further, my papa don't like to continue  with you like this, if i said "No""

Nisha's "No" means that she dont like me (if she want to know me more before saying "Yes"). I also dont want to get rejected by such a wonderful princess. Further how can i say "No" for her to my Mom. But i also want  to know her before saying "YES" to her.

The problem is how continue to new relation "KNOWING EACH OTHER" before getting into the relation, "ENGAGED".

Virtual date with my proposed bride..

My Moblie rings, "Hello! Raj h ru ?? what are you doing?".
I have not expected her call at this time (it is about 11:30 pm. I am going to my sleep) but her unexpected call from new number makes me confuse, "Nisha is this you?".
She laughs and says, "Haan Raj!! Nisha is this side.. I have changed my mobile no. (then she takes breath) and i think you might be free now".
I always loved to love such a adorable girl but i am feeling tried ( i have not slept for past 2 days due  to office works.. Office sucks me!!). My heart wants to continue with her but my body is getting restless (i am feeling sleepy). But where there is a will there is way, i forget my fatigue and follow my heart.

I say, "Thats fine!! atleast you have informed me your new number. Acha can we have vedio chat now".

Actually i  want to meet her but mine and hers' office schedule is obstructing ours' meeting. We have planned a meeting at delhi but it get drained due to my office works. Anyways in this world of internet, life have become easy and people have come closer. This is the option for what we both are looking out. We intended to meet but  due to busy schedule we decided to have the video chat (thanks to gmail, yahoo etc hehe..).

Nisha is also free and she agreed (i think she is becoming more friendly with me ..). We decided to meet online within 15 minutes.

I forget my fatigue. I open up the light of my study room (here i usually keep my laptop). My lappy (laptop) is lying on the table. My study room is full of my out of world thoughts (whether weird, awkward, generous etc all types of thoughts). The walls are coated with light brown paint. The table, chair, music system and a king -size bed (i  mean my lovely double bed on which i sleep like a king hehe) are pre-occupied in the 5m x 6 m  size of my room. On one of room walls, one can find my wall papers (after all, i am the hero of mine..). There is a rack piled up with books (i love reading whether it is "five point some" or reading "chacha chuadary"  comics), music cds (devotional, romantic and instrumental songs), movies, documentaries and offcourse my a Photoframe. A blank photoframe still rest on a side table of my bed.

This time i am not panic (last time when i call her, i feel some anxiety). I am feeling my room more filled with desire, hope and love. I washed my face, changed clothes (wear a t-shirt and a pyajama), comb hair and
 get ready for "VIRTUAL DATING" with my first proposed bride.

I played my cd-player, let the music be filled in the room, "Badey achey lagtey hoin ..",(i am loving this song). I put lappy on and log on to my gmail account. Send her chat request (to add her in friend list) and waited for her reply (it is  about 10 min past, we have spoken).

As soon as i send her the  request, she approved my request and appeared with green colour bulb, "Nisha" being shown in my gmail chat list. I click her name and click on "camera icon", to start with our "FIRST VIRTUAL DATING".

My first Love

It has been about a week, since then we both are conversing together. She does not know that i am narrating my experience with her here on this blog. How does the time passes with her, i don't know. I am felling in love with her each and every day.

After my five break ups, i want to settle down (they all were not broken due to anyone's mistake but i was destined to have these break ups). About them, i will later, but the first love is always a first love. I still remeber my first proposal.

 My first girl friend was Neha (when i was in Class IX). She was my classmate. I propose her in a very romantic way. One day early in the morning she was in the class. She was alone (she used to come early to the class and i also ). She was sitting in the room in white shirt and skirt (still i remember how pretty she looked in our school dress). The day was a sunny day and month of November (Semi- finals were scheduled in Next month). She was doing some Mathmatics problem ( i was good in Maths and topper of my class hehe..)

She was sitting in the first row, the  room was occupied with her persence (she was only there). I used to admire her since class VI. We were very gud friends, but i never had the courage to propose her.
I enter the room, saw her and said "hello!! Neha, How are you". She replied with her sparking smile, "Hi!! Raj, How are you.. I am fine.. Have you done saini mam questions (Mathmatics teacher)".

I put my school bag on last row seat ( I was always a beck bencher, hehe!! It was pleasant to see the class from back.. u can do anything and can see anything you want heheh!!) . Then I came towards her seat and said, "Yup!! i am done with them..have you not done".

She was still sitting, looking down in her math book and her hairs were falling over her face. I had always wished to touched her hairs with my hand and move them from her pretty face over her ears.
She replied, "No!! Raj, my answer is not coming right. I hate algebra.. You help me Yaar!!".

I always wanted to help her (who the hell will not want to help the girl he loved!!, Also i love Algebra..hehe). I replied, "Just show me the question, where you are not getting the answer", i moved and sit in the seat next to her to help her.

She turns her face towards me and put the NCERT math book over my hand and said, "Raj! solve this .. these questions sucks!!". She was looking very pretty and she was sitting close to me. Her warm breath was touching my hand. I said, "Neha, O.K i will solve the problem for you.. But only this one. Then don't ask me to solve the whole homework". i take the book and note book from her and solve the question. I also taught her the way to solve the problems graphically. (Algebra become were very easy with graphs yaar!!)

She said, "Thanks Raj!! you have solve my problem. You always has been a great friend of me". She touch her soft hand over my hand (I still remember her soft hands). Then she came close to me.

Her breathe become more close (Still 30 minutes in the class to start, no one has come then). I want to say something but words do not spell ot of my mouth. I looked into her eyes, my eyeballs get fixed to her eyeballs. I can see the love in her eyes. We both see deep into each other eyes for 5 min (this happen again when i saw the pic of Nisha, for the first time). I move little forward towards her eyes. She bent more towards me. Her eyes get more deeper into my eyes. I move further towards her, deeper into her eyes. I can see her soul and she can see my soul. We both move further towards each other face and finally our noses get obstruct. She looks pretty. I can see her eyelids, her eyeballs,  her eyebrows, her nose and her lips. They seemed larger than anything. I tilt my face clear the obstruction and i move more closer. She remain the still. Mine lips touch her's. She close her eyes. I closed my lips with her lips and finally a sensation was felt in me. Yes i kissed, i kissed her. It was my first kiss. I kissed her deeply.

This is how i purposed her, I proposed a girl for the first time.. Now it is the time to fell in love again!!

She teaches me : Marriage

Nisha asked about my work profile..But i don't want to start with work profiles, pay packages and future plans (after all we have to eat chappati only yaar!! so why these boring talks!!).
But it is first question (about the work profile and package of her husband) which comes in the mind of any girl who wish to settle down.

I replied here as am answering for a job interview, "Nisha, I am working as a Consultant. I am working in Strategic Management and Process Development for Infrastructure development in Asian Countries".

I know that she is working in a IT Company as SSE (Senior Software Engineer), but i am least interested in knowing her work profile or to tell about my work. I Just want to know her. Further, I enquired her, "Have seen ma profile??". I just wanted to know whether she has seen my mail or not. Whether she like's my profile and Snaps.

Nisha replied, "Yes, i have seen your mail. So you are a writer also.. nice to see that!!" she giggled. Then our conversation started its pace. I don't know how the time passes, but we talked about an hour. We both shared our family information.She shared with me about her work-profile (which i am least interested now!), about her company, hobbies and few college time experiences.


She is an ardent follower of Art of Living. She has deep faith in God (I too have!!) and she believes that every thing that happens is destine to happen, we are just the medium for that incident to happen (But i don't know, i believe this belief or not!!).

The lovable and interesting question she asked, "Raj! Why are you getting married, what marriage mean to you?".

It is the question which i have not think about, I am searching for my partner because i want to make my life more wonderful and more lovable. I think, it is most suitable age to get married that is why i am planning to get married. I said hesitantly and frankly, "Nishaaa..I want a life partner who can make my life and my family members life more lovable. Whose problems are mine and mine are hers!! (it is filmy dialogue, but it is the only best i  can say at that time!!) "

I replied but i know it is not the exact answer to the question she asked. I wanted to know what she think for marriage. I asked her,"Nisha what marriage mean to you!!".

She stopped for a while and answered, "Raj!! Marriage for me means the union of two souls. In fact it is a mutual agreement of two families in which a  male and a female agreed to set an organisation. Marriage means having a person, with whom you want to share your journey ahead. It means that till now i have enjoyed my journey alone. Now i want someone which is called as better half, with whom i want to share and enjoy my life ahead.". she stops and breathe deeply.

I am amazed to know the real meaning and her deep thinking. I remain quite. she cheered me up, "Hello!! Raj, cheer up, i think so but i am not a philosopher.Do be afraid..hahah"

I am impressed to know her views. She has given me different dimension over the institution of Marriage. "Thanks Nisha!, for letting me know your wonderful views",I said thankfully to her.

Her door bell rang and she said, "I think neha, my roomie has come. It is pleasant to talk to you.. I'll talk to you, later". I wished that we may continue more but her roommate has come. I said happily dis heartily, "It is fine Nisha, It is pleasant to talk to you, see you later!!".

"Chalo then bbye and take care", she close the conversation sweetly

"Ya, you too take care. Bbye and gud nite", I said with the hope to see her soon.

What I DO??

 I asked, "Hello!! Is this Nisha??".

 A soft and gentle voice speaks, "May, I know who is this speaking?".

 She is living in Mumbai. I can hear different voices from her side which also travels along with her  sweet voice to my ears. Her TV  may be on (A TV serial "Bade Ache lagte hoin", sound is coming from the background) and her apartment may be on road side (i can hear a traffic voice...bus horns etc also). 

"Ahem, Hi  I am Raj, Raaaaa..aaj Gupta from Delhi", I clear my throat.

She speaks lightly, "Raj..?? Oh! I got it..Ya !! How are you ??". 

I am glad to know that now i don't have to give her my basic introduction. "I am fine, Thank you!! How are you Nisha?", I asked formally (I tell you, it is the worst thing to do..but you have to be formal and it is obvious, if one is speaking in a light mood.. Offcourse!! one is fine. But still i have to ask). 

"I am also fine Raj. Yesterday Pa. has informed me about you",She said.

"Yup! My Ma has called me and informed me about the permission to talk you , I mean officially..", I said  cozily (It is not a big deal to talk to girl. but official conversation, i mean when families are involved it is huge task, Believe me!!). 

In order to make the initial of conversation warm (it is a warm up session, hehe..), i said, "So Nisha! How the things are moving ahead. Howz Mumbai and your Mumbai life." 

She is alone in the room, i can heard only TV sound and no other human voice (she lives in an apartment with her friend). 

"Raj, things are moving smooth. Mumbai is always cool and my life is also cool these days", she said satisfactorily. It seems like she is full of life and her voice is so heartening that i will love to record her voice. "How your life is  moving?? You are in Hyderabad Na?" She asked interestingly.

I am working in Hyderabad and living alone in my apartment with my loneliness. I wish many things at the start of day but end-up doing only fewest of few things at the end of day.

"The life here also pretty cool Nisha. Ya! i am in hyderabad..the city  of Nawabs..have you been here ever kya??" I ask her. 

"Nay!Never been there..waisey what is your work profile Raj?", she asked perplexedly.

Says "Hello"

Came from the office after a hectic schedule, it is 6:30, getting dusk. I am drench in rain water. It is raining outside. On the way, there is NO traffice jam (Heavy traffic jams are being found on Delhi roads even after the light shower). So i enjoyed my driving. On the way, i could smell the earth, the pleasant and light smell of mud filling my nostrils and re-charging my neurons.

The drainage of roads is so efficient that water drains well from the roads. I parked my car at Raju Tea-stall and enjoyed the KADAK tea with rain under the tree (it is stress reliving tea of Rs. 2/- only, which i love most).  The clouds are thundering and i have reached my room. I changed my clothes (it is a worse thing to do after playing in rain). My mobile reminder rang, "Call Nisha". "Oh!! i have to talk to her, i forgot, Shit!".

I clear my throat (i am not nervous though, just to have the effective voice). I sit on sofa (make myself comfortable, i am not nervous though!!). I look at her number written on paper lying on table in front of sofa. (Everything is found in its same position at every corner of my room, even after 10 days..hehe.). I feed the number and just dial. Before the dial tone may come, cancel the call  (Heard the voice coming from the window behind the sofa..Get up and close the window. I am not nervous heheh..). Open the tubelight and comfortably sat on the sofa (I am not nervous though..heheh, it is not tough to talk a girl. but tough to talk someone you don't know and know that this may be your life partner).

I am now relaxed. Hold the mobile and click on "menu" of mobile. Click on "Dialled Numbers" and dial the first number dialed recently and dial her number. A female voice appeared, "Dial number is out of coverage area. Please dial after some time.". I feel anxious, "uff, why her number is not getting dialed". I dial her number again, the voice heard, "Tring, Tring". Yes, her mobile is ringing. Feel more excited and anxious. Someone pick up the pick. It is the female voice. It says, "Hello!!". I asked, "Hello!! Is this Nisha??"

I Met her??

"Hello Raj!! How are you?", a soft voice reaches to my ear. The air is fresh and cool. The sun is getting sleep under the blanket of sea. The sea waves are dancing, playing and singing. The sea shows its affection and open up its arms towards me. These sea waves comes towards me to hug me. But i  am waiting for someone and stop myself to hug these waves. "Is this Raj??", a melliflous  voice, assuring its presence again questioned me.

I look back and see, a girl standing in green suit. Her eyes are as deep as sea. Her lips are as red as rose. Her face is as simple as moon. The wind touching her body is bringing the fragrance of hers' towards me. She is the one i see in the snap yesterday. She is the one in whose eyes' i get lost yesterday. I know this face and I know that i know her name. Yes, this is Nisha.

It is my first Proposal girl. I am here to meet her. She is here to meet me. We are here to know each other. I don't know  it is real or it is dream. I want to give myself a pinch. But i cannot move my hand.

"Tring, Tring!!", my mobile rang, now i can move my hand. My hands are out of the quilt. "Mom calling!!", Mobile says. I open my eyes and pick up the call, "Hello raj!! why you are not picking phone beta!!", Mom asked. I came to reality and said, "I am sleeping Ma!! Today is sunday..Office is off. Aaj to soney do". She said, "I had talked with Mr. Aggarwal. You may talk Nisha today in the evening." I came to know that what i  saw was the dream, what today i will do, will be the reality. Now i have to wait by evening to get my dream true..

Yes, I liked her!!

A two-page bio-data opens up stating from her family history (which i care least!!) to her hobbies, education, height and  work profile.. She is working as SAP Consultant in a renowned MNC with a hefty package. Nisha's hobbies  ranges from horse ridding, car driving, sky diving to travelling, reading.etc ..I am a big foddie and i wish to know about her cooking skills...which is totally absent from her Biodata..
My eyeballs roll down twice, no thrice , no four times, no but atleast more than ten times on her bio-data and snaps..Her profile is adoring and i liked her profile very much. I wish, i can meet this girl and to have the date with her (which every guy wants to have with her would be, before marriage) . But she looks no better than my first girl friend (it was heartbreaking  break-off).
She has done engineering from a NIT and working since 2008. She knew french, German (i know hinglish only..).. I liked her profile, and wish to meet her. I called up My Mom, "Hello Ma!! H ru,.
 "Main teek hoin beta..how you like the profile??", Mom asked.
I said un-interestingly (but i am interested  deeply..hehe), "Which profile Ma..Haa that which you have asked me to see..i have seen the profile..i think it is O.K.".
Mom asked excitedly, "So when you are coming here at Delhi (now my homeplace)?.We are planning to visit her home"
I don't want to meet her in typical indian style, going with a group of people and making both of us uncomfortable (i feel the girl and boy should feel comfortable and confident before deciding their better half).
I don't want to visit her home without knowing Nisha, I asked straightforwardly (which i dare to say with my mom!!), "I want to talk to her over phone". Mom is shocked to know (she consider me a shy baby !! which is true), "Raj beta what are you saying!!". Teek hain let me talk to her parents over this.." .
I assure mom , "Ma!! you know na, if our thinking do not match then there is no need to see her at her home"

(I hope she will now consider me, as mature beta and not mama's boy..hehe)

My first Marriage Adoration

Today, in the evening after coming back from office (as usual boring office..), i sat on my reading table and put my lappy on and connect to internet with dial up connection. I logon to my gmail account. The first unread mail with the subject "Matrimonial alliance". A huge smile got on to my face,"Chalo dektey hain, is she my dream girl (waisey i am still confuse whether she exist or not)". As the mail was clicked, light off, no power back up and internet was disconneted,"uff! iskko bhi abhi disconnect hona tha".

I feel more excited and anxious.. where there is a will there is a way,i had a reliance data card (Karlo duniya mutti main..heheh)..i just plug it and get my gmail account signed in.. I opened my first matrimonial alliance .. it is  addressed by the brother of the bride...He has forwarded the Biodata and snap of Nisha (the name i love most...). Downloaded the attachment and hurriedly unzip the downloaded zipped attachment. It has a biodata and two photographs of the bride..

I enthusiastically open  up the photographs to see what my destiny has imbibed in this folder..The photo opens up .. and a pretty face with huge eyes get lived on my lappy's screen. She has lovable eyes..sharp nose and no doubt captivating personality..She has small hairs and black eyes..very deep which are full with life..(It took me 5 mins to get back to reality from her eyes..). She is standing in pink saree ...(girls look pretty in pink)..i love to see her again and again...

I opened up her second photo...it is more lovely than previous one..she looks decent and admirable and nevertheless a winning trophy for a guy like me..In this photo she is wearing a green suit (Girls look much prettier in suits than saree).i fell in love with her photos. It took me 15 minutes to move and look what her biodata states..(Boy love girls but when it comes to marriage you have to be a man than to be a boy)..

The Journey Begins

Nevertheless, the three option i have discussed before, all are the important (after all i consider this as a mega project..). Therefore to start with , my journey begins with Option -1 i.e. A Rishta bang at my home. A Bio -data is being forwarded to me after the approval of my family member.(After all , they are the first one to see a bio-data and snaps of the proposal approached them.). The girl hails from delhi... she has  graduated from a premier engineering college and pursing the job in IT. Family background is good (which do not matter to me much, it is the purview of my family members).. Since i do not live with my family members (which i missed most..). I gotta call from my mom today, "Biodata and photo of Nisha (not real name, but i love this name) have been mailed at your E-mail. We have match your kundli - it match..tell me by tommorrow.. how u like her..". Now the ball is my court. let us see hwz my first proposal girl..

Search kaisey karuuu

Search kya karu.. kaisey karu.. it is understood that searching a bride for yourself in India is not an easy task. Here talking about your marriage in sub urban and town areas is still consider a crime!! And i dare to commit this crime..(hehehe...). In this internet age, there are three mode of searching..one,  physically someone bang at your door with some rishta..(usually this type of proposal comes from relative's or neighbour's help..). Second, a rishta will come in hardcopy (i.e. by news paper adverstisement..dekho humey ek sundar susheel bahu ki talash hain) and third but not the least matrimonial site (it is not better than any bakwaas social networking site..). Every mode of search has its prons and crons (here i have to opt out of three ..but i really tell you they all are not so interesting to work with them). I am still in thought ki search kaisey karuuuuuuuuu...

Search Kya Karu

Hi here is Raj. I am a small town guy who started his journey seeing the dreams of America. Have been to different countries but never been to United states. Being awarded with Bachelor of Technology (But i tell you there is no technology that i have mastered) from a typical government Engineering College of India. It is the only tag for which i am still earning, there is nothing special about me. Now after crossing the age of 27, i want a change and stability in life...( i am not sure why it is said marriage bring stability in life!!). Since my parents and well wishers are more concern about it than me (i.e my marriage). I have taken the initiative to begin my search on my own..( i don't want typical indian TV serial soap girl and also not typical MBAs type one)..it is because i don't want the proposal to be on my table before i make my mind (it is harsh to reject any girl and more painful to get rejected by anyone hehehe..). Now since the process of rejection and selection may not get into other's hand (which i tried to control..hmmmm).. i have started my journey.. lekin ab search kya karuuuuuuuuuu..